Love is not a victory march... it's a cold and broken hallelujah
So I'm in a quotable mood. Granted I'm at the end of my tether with lots of things... don't be surprised at any major changes if I blog it...
I've been theorizing on relationships and stuff again... This whole business of compromise and the like.
Is it just me or has the power shifted completely to guys? Now, I'm not saying anyone should be controlling in a relationship, but nuntheless, since when has it been hypothesized that the guy makes all the rules.
Funnily enough, I could be wrong, but I keep bouncing into pretty girls - hot chicks even - that are actually waiting on responses from guys. The decisions in the relationship are dependent entirely upon what their boyfriend feels, his desires, his wishes, his comfort zone, etc. What ever happened to compromise? Was it shot on sight, and if so, who do we bring in for questioning?
One party doesn't entire a relationship alone with their own belief system, ideas, values, etc... Both parties do. Everyone is different as well.... that's where compromise comes in. Why keep bending and bending and bending? It's illogical to expect that and to follow through with it on either end...
"I don't do it for anybody" and "that's just how I am" are not acceptable excuses. You are not the center of the universe, and you are also not the only unique person in the world. Furthermore, neither of the parties are named "anybody" or "nobody" I'm sure...
Perhaps that's just stupidity.
Eventually all that bending gets tiring, and one of those parties end up on the end of their tether. And just so, what could've been perfect ends up ending.
Why is that? Why do people - girls and guys - allow themselves to get into that position?
It's not even to say it's the umm...not so cute ones alone... It's those guys and girls that have no reason to be desperate... a great catch so to speak.
Furthermore, it's ironic that while one party is cutting styles on their partner, taking them for granted... They seem to fail to realize that there's a million other people waiting, hoping, wishing to be in their position. Reminds me of an oldies song lyrics "if you believe that no one else wants your girl, just let her go, and someone else will take her... before you can count... one, two, three.... yes indeed"
- (with relation to holidays/celebrations) "....when it comes around, all I get is annoyed"
- Tolerance for stupidity should not be confused with green lighting it's continuance...
- No one deliberates on the bus they missed, they deliberate on when the next one will arrive.
- The past is good for reference but not present tense if it poses a paradox, unless that's what you're going for.
- Did you wake up one morning and realize it was your lifelong purpose to be a jerk, or did you gradually grow into it?
Shellllllli out.
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"I don't do it for anybody" and "that's just how I am" are not acceptable excuses. You are not the center of the universe, and you are also not the only unique person in the world. Furthermore, neither of the parties are named "anybody" or "nobody" I'm sure..."
ReplyDeletethis is not crazy, this is truth.
Ok, have you not noticed this is how our world is set up? Since the dawn of time, man has been set as the dominant factor. At least that's how it's supposed to be. Understandably there are SOME times when a man must displease himself to please his woman, but they are realistically far and few in between. Heh, the last time a guy listened to his girl, we all started wearing clothes :p
ReplyDelete"Heh, the last time a guy listened to his girl, we all started wearing clothes"
ReplyDeleteSEE Shell? :P I rest my case ;) (jk) lol